tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9947853.post1941614070030637524..comments2023-06-18T15:23:36.253-04:00Comments on Practicing Sanity: Sometimes a ring is just a ring...Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02379750999344395133noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9947853.post-11673959425216195472008-12-03T08:27:00.000-05:002008-12-03T08:27:00.000-05:00Thanks, Laura. I wear thumb rings *all* the time. ...Thanks, Laura. I wear thumb rings *all* the time. I have 3 or 4 of them. I just won't wear it in his shop again. Actually... perhaps I'll just not go back to that shop. Which is too bad. Because it's a very cool shop.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02379750999344395133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9947853.post-13837256812787858662008-12-03T08:21:00.000-05:002008-12-03T08:21:00.000-05:00Hmm. I guess that makes two of us that are naive,...Hmm. I guess that makes two of us that are naive, never heard of that before... I think you should keep wearing your ring. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9947853.post-57047857136931593202008-12-02T16:15:00.000-05:002008-12-02T16:15:00.000-05:00Glad you were able to get out, and also glad that ...Glad you were able to get out, and also glad that you are standing up for your individuality.<BR/><BR/>Take care, ClintClinthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05692166626739097909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9947853.post-62376007432119154682008-12-02T16:06:00.000-05:002008-12-02T16:06:00.000-05:00Thanks, Clint. I think I have come to the same con...Thanks, Clint. I think I have come to the same conclusion- that I can't worry constantly about how people might misinterpret me, especially around such a small thing as a ring and which finger I wear it on. Who knows, some day I might run into someone who interprets my green eyes as a cue that I want them to spit on my shoe. You just can't ever know what some folks are going to do.<BR/><BR/>I was a bit uncomfortable in this situation today. He was a local shop owner with whom I have had several conversations, and he has always been very kind to me. I never got the wiggy feeling until today, and luckily when it finally hit, I was on my way out the door and no longer trapped in a confined space.<BR/><BR/>*Shudder*Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02379750999344395133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9947853.post-55650177708148612412008-12-02T15:55:00.000-05:002008-12-02T15:55:00.000-05:00I just wandered across your post while googling so...I just wandered across your post while googling some blogs. I've been wearing thumb rings for about 6 years now, not because of some hidden meaning but because I like them. I understand that many people will misinterpret my reasons. I don't worry about that, and forcing myself to quit worrying about what others think is one of the reasons why I wear them.<BR/><BR/>So I think you shouldn't worry about how others will misinterpret you based upon what you choose to wear. There are at least as many people who will think it's cool that you choose to wear a thumb ring as there are people who think it has a hidden meaning. You can't please everybody, so you might as well please yourself.<BR/><BR/>Having said that, as a woman you need to have a plan in place in case a male decides to be more aggressive than this guy was. You need that regardless of whether you choose to wear continue wearing a thumb ring. There's plenty of nuts out there, so you should be prepared in case such a situation turns for the worse. Thank goodness that wasn't the case this time!<BR/><BR/>ClintClinthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05692166626739097909noreply@blogger.com